How is your Christmas season going? If you haven’t guessed from my title, so far, it has been less than perfect. This seems to happen every single year and I think I am just now beginning to learn how to better respond when our holiday season simply does not match the high expectations we have in our heads.
It is just the middle of December (as I am typing this) and so far Hudson has broken about 5 ornaments, 2 salt and pepper reindeer shakers, and one snow globe (yes, there was water and those little, fake flecks of snow everywhere). This is to be expected. Last Christmas we still had a baby that mostly was in our arms. I don’t think he was even really crawling last year. This year, he is literally running. And oh man, it is so much fun, but it also means that things break more easily. Next year, there will definitely be less glass and ceramic ornaments on our tree.
Along with a long list of things that have broken, our Christmas tree has fallen over TWICE. As I have already mentioned here on the blog, every year Lance and I fight about the straightness of our tree. Every year I complain that it is crooked and every year he tells me it is not. Well, this year, it fell in the middle of the night. This resulted in even more broken ornaments that Hudson, in fact, had no part in. The point here, is obvious: the tree will shed a million needles, the tree will falter and not stand perfectly straight, the tree will fail us every single time. Do you see what I am saying? It is amazing how in this time of year, how easily our eyes are taken away from Jesus and moved toward imperfect and unimportant objects like the tree.
And finally there was the Santa photos. Last year, we opted for the EXPENSIVE package at the Grove with the Santa that looks like he just fell out of the pages of The Night Before Christmas. We were excited and eager first time parents willing to spend whatever on the perfect Santa photos. And they were pretty good, Hudson was still so little, that he had no reason to even cry. He just looked directly at the camera with a sweet smile.
This year, we went to theSanta at Bloomingdales. There was even a Mrs. Claus and the photo was absolutely free, which is our very favorite price. However, Hudson did not like Santa very much and the photo is less than perfect to say the least. Somehow, I ended up sitting on the Santa chair and Santa didn’t even make the picture!
Since last typing this up, we took a little trip to Minnesota with Grammy & Auntie Kay. And in similar fashion to the theme above, Hudson and I both were not feeling 100% and I was hit with some especially bad body aches (so bad it brought me to tears!). Traveling with an over-active and curious toddler is hard, but it becomes especially difficult when both of you are not feeling well. Thankfully my mom and sister were incredibly helpful!
While my ideal for this trip would have been to feel a bit better, it still ended up being a great trip! We got to see a lot of family we don’t get to see often. Hudson got to touch snow for the first time. We visited the Mall of America. We slept in, ate lots of good food, and even sipped cider in plastic igloos. So overall, it was a special and memorable trip, minus my body being difficult.
And you can actually scratch the imperfect Santa photos. We ended up trying again and visited Santa at the Mall of America. Tip: if your toddler is anything like mine, try allowing them to walk up to Santa on their own, instead of placing them on Santa’s lap. This was my sister’s idea and it was really effective. Hudson was so much more confident and interested in Santa as he walked up to him on his own. We got some really sweet photos. My personal favorite is Hudson hugging Santa and looking straight at the camera.
Okay, so what is the point in all this? It is not to bring you down. Or get you to start complaining about all the little things that have not gone according to plan. No, it is to remind you to manage your Christmas expectations. If the gifts, the parties, the perfectly decorated home, the homemade cookies, the Christmas lights, and that perfect family Christmas card are the things at the forefront of your mind right now, you will likely be disappointed. You will likely feel like Christmas was just not quite right. However, if everything in you is focused on the baby, the baby in the manger: Jesus; then disappointment will not follow you. Because here is the thing: your cookies might burn, your cards might be late, the dog might eat the gingerbread house (true story); but he is already born. We know how that story goes. So no matter how many of your Christmas expectations seems to be falling around you, you can still rejoice, for there is good news!
“But the angel said to them, ‘Don’t be afraid, for look, I proclaim to you good news of great joy that will be for all the people: Today in the city of David a Savior was born for you, who is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be the sign for you: You will find a baby wrapped tightly in cloth and lying in a manger'” -Luke 2:10-12
Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas! I hope this perspective can help you really embrace all the imperfect elements of your holiday that really don’t matter that much and can allow you to focus and rejoice on the baby that changes everything!
This mama is a fan of children’s books. I believe the books we read to our little ones are more than just books. They are teaching our children what we believe, value, and love. For this reason, I am pretty picky with the books I choose to read to Hudson.
Especially when it comes to Christmas books, there are soooo many options, but there also are a lot that tell more of our culture’s version of Christmas and fail to include Jesus and instead focus on Santa, reindeer, and gingerbread men. Nothing inherently wrong with these elements, but I love finding books that help show the fun in these things, but ultimately draw our attention to Jesus and family and love.
I spent a ton of time sifting through our own Christmas collection, scrolling through library catalogs, and researching through all the books on Amazon, to bring to you my 10 Favorite Christmas books. This is a good mix of secular and Christian books. There are some classics you should recognize, and there are likely a few you have never heard of.
If you are anything like me, and still in the midst of Christmas shopping, one or more of these books would make a great gift for the little ones in your life!
This season, I have been very much feeling the tension between how our culture celebrates Christmas and the true reason for this special season: Jesus. As a new parent, I am trying to navigate the role Santa will have in our family. I do not necesarrily wish to steal away all the fun that comes with traditions of Santa and putting out cookies for him and carrots for his reindeer, but I certainly do not want my children to miss the point.
This book is a beautiful answer to some of this tension I have been struggling with. There is a Santa in this book, but it is a Santa that is a humble servant of Christ. It is a Santa that kneels and prayers and asks for God’s wisdom to help guide the children to understand the true joy of Christmas. This is the type of book that I know I will read over and over again to all of my kiddos.
This book very much aligns with much of what I discussed last week. This is the perfect book to help bring your family together around Christ this Christmas season. This book is the perfect element to a family tradition around advent. It gives you and your family a devotion for each day of December before Christmas. Not only can this be the perfect family evening routine together, it will feed the whole family with the Word of God and keep everyone centered during this very busy time of year.
This is another great book that functions as an Advent calendar. The illustrations are darling! This book would be the perfect coffee table book to have out during the holidays! It also very much connects to all my thoughts from last week’s post and gives a new recipe, activity, song, game or craft to try each day as a family. There is something about books that can really bring a family together and I love how this book so intentionally gives fun, holiday ideas to help get your family to enjoy time together.
This is the perfect book to make part of your Christmas tree traditions. I just discovered it, but next year, we are definitely going to make reading this book apart of our Friday-after Thanksgiving tree tradition! It is the perfect tradition-type of book as the book itself holds the traditions a family has around their own Christmas tree. I love how this book is so centered around family and the importance of tradition. Not to mention, it is a rhyming book so perfect for the little ears in your family!
I am a fan of the God Gave Us series of books. This is another beautifully written and illustrated story that helps your little ones understand that Christmas is in fact about much more than the tree and the presents. I love these books because the author so beautifully captures the curious, question-asking mind of a child. The answers from the mama bear, even minister to me as a parent, as I glean wisdom on how to discuss some of these bigger topics with kids as they begin to get older.
There are so many wonderful books that beautifully depict the birth of Jesus that are geared for young children. Of all that I sifted through and researched, Room for a Little One, stands out. For one, I love that the story is told from the perspective of animals. Hudson is animal obsessed right now, so this retelling of the story is especially interesting to him. There is also something very charming about getting an animal’s perspective of the night of Jesus’s birth.
My mom got Hudson this book last Christmas and it is one of our favorites. The whole Little Blue Truck series is so endearing and perfect for my little guy who is becoming more and more truck obsessed with each passing day. I love this book in particular because it allows us to work on counting as we get to count the number of trees that are left in in Little Blue Truck. It is also fun because the last page has flashing lights on the final Christmas tree!
Hudson is currently loving birds. We also just visited New York City this summer as a family. For these two reasons, this book feels like the perfect addition to our Christmas library. Again, this book’s illustrations are stunning. I love the beautiful images of NYC at Christmas time. Red and Lulu are birds that get separated, but eventually are reunited by the story’s end. This heartwarming story combines some of our favorite things: birds, NYC, and love. It is a bit wordy for Hudson’s attention span, but I look forward to enjoying this story with him next Christmas and for now, we will just enjoy the beautiful illustrations.
This is another well-written book that helps young children understand the real point of Christmas and how things like gift giving is ultimately connected to showing love, like the love God showed us through Jesus. I particularly enjoy the last two pages: “We give gifts at Christmas to show our love. And we say, ‘Happy Birthday, Baby Jesus’” (Pingry 19-22). The language in this book is super simple, the words are nice and big, making it again the perfect Christmas story for the little ones in your home.
Hudson got this as a gift last year from his nanny and poppy. This makes such a great gift! Hudson loves opening this book and hearing the voices of his nanny and poppy. This is such a classic book and we have multiple copies of The Night Before Christmas, but Hudson definitely prefers the version that is personalized with voices he can recognize!
What are some of you family’s favorite Christmas books? I would love to hear from you! Leave a comment below.
It has been a busy past few days. From our trip to Yosemite to Thanksgiving to getting the house all ready for Christmas; my soul feels a bit tired and worn out. The past week, I have definitely been out of my normal routine. I have been waking up later, working out less, and not sticking to my normal cleaning routine. Things feel a bit out of order. Our house is still scattered with Christmas things that are not fully in place. My mind has lots of words in it, but this typing thing already feels a bit foreign. My legs are ready to increase mileage for marathon training, but I am not sure my head is there.
The thing with routines is that it is so easy to slip away. My body fought me hard as I pulled myself out of bed at 5:30 am this week. My mind also fought me as I more easily convinced myself to skip on my typical disciplines. To me, this is just further evidence as to why keeping routines, even in busy holiday seasons is SO important. If you have yet to read my past post on all of this, you can read it here.
3 Things to Keep Routines Around this December
On a different note, I want to write about some of the routines and rhythms you can keep this December. These three simple concepts are designed to help keep you centered on Christ this Christmas season. You are likely being pulled in a million directions this month. It is so easy to lose focus if you don’t have specific routines in place to keep you centered and grounded.
1. Keep a Routine Around the Tree
On our first Christmas together, we started the tradition of getting our Christmas tree the day after Thanksgiving. This was our fifth year of getting our tree the Friday after Thanksgiving. I know a lot of you will get your tree whenever and that often depends on each year, but we have found to really love this tradition/routine of getting our tree at the same time every year. It takes away the guessing and we expect and look forward to it every year. It is also nice to get it in on the earlier side, so it can be enjoyed all Christmas season. This year, we chose to decorate it the same evening. We listened to Christmas music, put up ornaments, and drank sipping chocolate from Trader Joe’s, which I highly recommend. It is way better than regular hot cocoa.
I can so clearly remember our first Christmas as a married couple. I have a specific memory walking down the aisles at Target and feeling mad at Lance. We didn’t have much for our Christmas tree. And I wanted to buy all the things for it: a fancy tree topper, a pretty tree skirt, festive ornaments. But my logical and conservative husband, did not want to spend the extra money. We already spent over $60 on a tree, more money on things like that felt over the top to him. I was so upset about this. It seems super silly now, but at the time it was a whole lot of Christmas drama!
Anyways, we didn’t buy a fancy tree topper. Instead, I used leftover ribbon we had from our wedding and tied a bow on the top of our tree. Five years later and that is our same tree topper. At this point, we could buy one of those fancy toppers, but there is something about that bow that I love. It feels right. It feels like tradition.
All these little traditions and routines around our Christmas tree are fun and special and even important; however, the tree to me is actually more of a metaphor. It is this very physical thing that sits in your living room for nearly a month of your year. The tree is pretty and shiny, but even more importantly it tells a story. It holds important milestones and moments. And not only does it tell a story of your family; it ultimately tells a story of God’s faithfulness, even in the years that might not have any shiny or memorable ornaments attached to it. So, create routines and traditions around the tree. However, don’t be distracted by the small details, like the tree topper or the fact that your tree is always a tad crooked. Remember, the tree is just a metaphor of something much, much more important.
2. Keep a Routine Around Advent
Last Christmas, Hudson was just 6-months old, so we did not keep up with an Advent calendar for him. This year we are! There are so many Advent calendar options that you can buy at the store. Those are good, but I am currently really into the Advent calendars that you fill on your own and use every single year. My mother-in-law got us this beautiful Advent calendar from Pottery Barn. It has great big pockets to fill with whatever you choose. It is nice that Hudson is still at an age where he doesn’t really care what he is getting and the smallest things are still super exciting to him. For this reason, I filled up his calendar this year with things like stickers, plastic dinosaurs, and protein bars. I know- not as exciting as chocolate, but I think he will still enjoy it.
The day before Advent, I focused more on finding little things in the dollar section of Target to put into his calendar that I missed the point a bit. I forgot that the whole point of this Advent season is to reflect on the coming of Christ. So, I kept the random dinosaurs and snowman stickers stuffed in the pockets, but I also added something. I found an amazing blog that had this adorable handwritten scripture geared towards little ones for each day. She specifically had the two-year olds in mind! I printed it out, cut out the squares and put one in each pocket. I taped construction paper on the wall next to our advent calendar to stick the scripture on. This way we can visibly remember the greatest gift this season: Jesus.
Again, this is nothing revolutionary. A small adjustment to a typical calendar filled with chocolate or even alcohol (have you seen the beer advent calendar from Costco?). While there is nothing inherently wrong with calendars like this, I do believe it quickly turns our eyes away from the point of Advent. It is to remember and await in eager anticipation for what is coming. The purpose of Advent is not in the chocolate or craft beer cans. The purpose is in Jesus.
If you have little ones and wish to incorporate simple scripture into your Advent tradition, you can get that free printable on the Happy Home Fairy blog right here. Just because we are already a few days into advent, it is never too late to start implementing more of Jesus into your Christmas traditions.
3. Keep a Routine Around Family Time
After dinner time, we are trying to do one thing as a family that feels Christmas-y. On the first of December, we started by watching Lance’s all-time favorite Christmas movie, Home Alone. We just watched about 20-minutes, but it was a fun way to start off the month of December. A few other ideas we plan on doing as a family include: walking around to see Christmas lights in Sleepy Hollow (we do this every year with our good friends Hannah and Kyle), baking cookies together, reading Christmas-themed books (more on this in next week’s blog post), dancing to Christmas music, drinking that sipping chocolate I mentioned above, attending local Christmas events (especially ones surrounded around celebrating what this time of year is truly about).
If you live in the South Bay area, our church is putting on a special event called “Campfire Christmas.” It is the perfect evening activity with your family to spend some time celebrating and singing and preparing your hearts for the coming of Christ. Do a little research and see some of the Christmas events local churches around you are putting on. These are often free and the perfect Christmas family outing centered around Christ.
Side note: the truth of the matter is that we are not all curled up together doing some cute, Christmas-themed activity every single night of December. Applause to those families, but that is just not us. In fact, just tonight we had a nice dinner together, Hudson took a bath, and I flew out the door to yoga. The point of routines is intention. We could have gone out to a local holiday event being held in the community this evening, but Lance and I both sensed it was not right for us tonight. I am telling you this story because I want to be clear: we are definitely not perfect and life is busy, but on the nights that make sense, we really are intentionally trying to spend them together doing something centered around this season.
Give Something Up + Commit to Something
I recently listened to a new podcast episode on The Next Right Thing. I have mentioned Emily’s podcast before on here and it is because she always drops such good wisdom in her short 15-20-minute episodes. You really should take a listen if you haven’t. Her latest episode is all about how to avoid decision fatigue during the holidays. She suggests deciding ahead of time one thing to say no or remove from your schedule during the month of December. For her, it was work-related travel. She also recommended planning ahead and saying yes to two things that will keep you centered on Christ during the holidays. It could be a devotional, a playlist, a book.
All this very much resonated with me as I wrote up this particular blog. For me, I am saying no to late nights and consuming myself with tasks that simply are not that important. When it comes to the evenings, I want to be home with my family, I don’t want to busy myself with shopping and planning and doing. By setting this boundary, I am hoping to end this Christmas season in a place where I am more present and joyful.
What Are You Prioritizing this December?
Okay, so I know this was a bit all over the place, but the heart of what I am trying to convey is that the things and routines we choose to do during December really, really matter. Even if we don’t realize it, what we choose to say no and yes to are ultimately revealing what matters to us. When I choose to consume myself with shopping, I quickly lose sight of what this time of celebration is all about. However, when I choose to put scripture in each pocket of Hudson’s Advent calendar and we stick it up on the wall together, I ground myself and the Word of God pulls me into the true joy of the season.
I hope this makes you think about exactly how you are spending your time in the days and weeks to come. What is your focus? What is spinning on in your head? Is it your shopping list and the parties you are attending? Or is it your family? The candlelight Christmas-Eve service? That verse from Luke you just can’t shake from your mind?
It sure is easy to be pulled away from the important things this time of year. My prayer is that this December can be different for you. You will likely still make some mistakes and fill your schedule a bit too full, but I hope that you can end the month with just a bit more peace, joy, and gentleness than last year!
Share a comment if you have a particular routine during December that keeps you focused and joyful this time of year! I would love to hear from you.
Just last Sunday we went to the Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony at The Grove in Los Angeles. This was the perfect reminder about what can easily happen during this time of year. I witnessed people pushing and shoving each other through crowds. There were people yelling at waitresses for not keeping their reservation. There were unkind words thrown at people that were standing and covering the screen that was projecting the show. To be honest, there was not a ton of holiday cheer. There were a lot of security guards and chaos and crowds of unhappy people. Sure, there was a beautiful, big Christmas tree, which costs more than what many people make in a year (trust me, we looked up all the stats as we waited on the crowded lawn). There were beautiful lights everywhere and the store windows glimmered with shiny things. But like I said, there seemed to be something missing.
Stay Focused on What Matters
Don’t get me wrong. I LOVE this time of year. But, I also am quite aware that I have a tendency to not show up as my best self around this time. I too can be like the crowds of angry people that push and shove their way to the front. I tend to be on edge, cranky, and stressed. The truth is, I can easily let the distractions of gift giving, holiday parties, and all the decorations get in the way of staying focused and present on what this time of celebration is all about: the birth of Jesus!
This year, I am committed to staying focused on what actually matters and not letting the holiday chaos get the best of me. Are you with me? Let’s enjoy this time of year, but let’s also keep systems in place to stay centered and focused on what the celebration is truly all about. It is likely that you are going to be a bit outside of your normal routine during this season and that is totally okay. You might be traveling. You might stay up later, sleep in longer, eat more cookies. And to all of that, I say go for it. As much as I love routines and systems, I think it is also essential to let go of some of the structure during seasons like this; however, there are a few things that I believe are essential for you to keep up even during the holidays.
5 Things To Keep Doing During Holiday Busyness
So, while you might be stuffing your face with gingerbread men and staying up past your bedtime, here are a few things you should keep up with to help avoid being a grinch this Christmas and to really be joyful and present and thankful.
1. Wake Up Before the Kiddos
I get it. With less work + no school, you might easily be tempted to sleep in and wake up when the whole house wakes up. This is easy to do when you might be staying up later than normal shopping or partying. However, if you are anything like me, even just 10-minutes of quiet time before the chaos of the day, is essential for me to be the best mama and wife I can be. Normally, I wake up at 5:15 am to have at least an hour of time to journal, pray, work on blog. I will definitely have some days of waking up later, but I still plan on setting an alarm to ensure I have at least 10-minutes before Hudson wakes up. So, sleep in, but still allow for some early morning quiet time. This can really help set the tone for the rest of the day.
2. Take Your Vitamins
Even if you don’t take supplements as a daily routine, the idea behind this point, is keep up with one simple habit that is good for your health. The reality is that I am going to be eating A LOT this holiday season and I will be eating a ton of things that might not be the healthiest options. That is part of this time of year! However, my body and emotional state really gets affected if I am just consuming wine, sugar, and salt. And let’s be honest, that is a lot of what is going into my body around this time. There must be balance. So, even if it is just keeping up with your vitamin routine or your protein shake every morning. Keep doing one healthy food habit that will help counter all that wine, sugar, and salt.
3. Keep Moving
Amidst all the busyness, it is easy to skip out on your typical workout routine. I don’t think you need to keep up as intense of an exercise routine as you might normally, but continuing to have some type of movement in your days is still vital. If you are traveling, it can be a real challenge to stay as active. As I wrote about in last week’s post on finding exercise routines, 10-minutes is always better than zero. Use your small windows of time! Another option, is to try to incorporate movement or getting outdoors when you are visiting with friends or family. Take a family walk Christmas Eve. Bring a friend that is home for the holidays to a yoga class. This is a fun way to visit, while still keeping active!
4. Create Space for Evening Routine
It is likely you are going to be out later on certain evenings than you typically would. Our family is an early to bed type of family, so it can really affect us staying out past our bedtimes night after night during this time of year. For that reason, I think it is important to talk within your family and set the maximum time you will be out. Aim to really get home by this time, so you can keep up with the elements of your evening routine. Story time, cuddles, night cream. These are the things that might be easy to toss out the window when you are coming home past midnight and are exhausted. I really believe it is important to preserve your evening routine as much as possible by giving yourselves and your family some time before just falling asleep. This might entail leaving the party slightly early or saying no to certain things, but trust me, you and your family will be much happier if you create these types of boundaries.
5. Plan Ahead
The week of Christmas, I always feel especially on edge because I am still trying to do all things on my holiday to-do list that I have not gotten to! This Christmas season, I am really committing to getting all the shopping and holiday prep done by the first week of December. This is my goal. To make this happen, I am planning ahead. I am scheduling all my shopping early. I am clearly marking our calendars with the different events we are going to, so it is very clear to the whole family what we have going on. Planning ahead really can save you from a lot of Christmas drama!
In the spirit of Christmas, I wanted to give you a little gift. I created a pretty little “Christmas To-Do List” to help you organize everything you have to do this season! I put some scripture and reminders to help you stay rooted in what this time of year is all about. Not the presents or Santa or the Christmas Tree Lighting or cookie exchanges. Jesus. It is about Him! I really believe working on incorporating these 5 things into this busy time of year will ultimately help keep you focused on what actually matters!
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What are some things you do during this time of year to help keep you grounded? I would love to hear from you! Leave a comment below.
Fall is in the air! Well, if you live in Southern California, it is in the air only in the crisp mornings and as the day goes on, it suddenly reverts back to summer weather. But hey, I can pretend that we actually live in a place that experiences the magic of autumn. Even though the weather is not quite allowing for me to pull out all my scarves and sweaters, all the pumpkins in our house and the smell of Trader Joe’s pumpkin bread baking in our oven are definitely helping me feel like it is in fact October, not July.
Along with pumpkins everywhere, it feels more like fall when we fill our calendar with fun, fall activities and events! From visiting pumpkin patches to costume parties to art projects, there are so many fun ways you can spend your fall days with little ones to help get you in the mood of the fall season, even when you are still sweating in a tank top.
There are a lot of lists out there in the Pinterest world of round-ups full of fall crafts and activities for toddlers. Those are great, but this is not that type of list. I am just not that type of mom, maybe one day, but I just can’t seem to find the time to create those elaborate sensory bins and messy craft projects. This is more of a simple, everyday list that is budget-friendly and accessible to the everyday mama, like me!
1. Decorate Your Home
Our pumpkin collection throughout our home is growing, largely thanks to my mother-in-law, whose love for pumpkins is contagious. Our friends were over Sunday evening and they counted 27 pumpkins! I took some pictures just to prove it. We love pumpkins over here at the Capel home.
I know some people don’t even bother with putting out the pumpkins and scarecrows because it feels like a lot of extra effort and work for a season that often feels very fleeting. And let’s just be honest, it does not quite compare to the magic of Christmas, but I am here to tell you that I think you should put up a few fall decorations to help make your home reflect the change of season. It does not need to be super expensive or extravagant, you can keep it real simple. You can make it into one of the first fall activities you do with your toddler to help expose them to the colors and shapes of this fun season.
Fall-themed window stickers is a great and easy way to make the home feel more autumn-like, while giving your toddler a fun activity. Especially if you have large windows, this is a great way to easily make a room feel transformed for fall.
As I mentioned, we have pumpkins everywhere. Some really nice and fragile ones that are high up, but we also have little ones that I don’t care much about. These have become the perfect toys for Hudson to play with. His pumpkin obsession is real, wonder where he gets that from? These fake foam pumpkins are the perfect decor to put out that you won’t need to worry about if your toddler decides to throw them across the room or chew on them. Just speaking from experience.
2. Take Fall Porch Pictures
You don’t need a crazy porch set-up to make this one happen. All you really need is just a couple pumpkins and maybe a fun fall-themed sign. A wreath might also be a nice touch. I love the one I bought at HomeGoods this season! Wreaths are one of those things that can be a bit expensive, but I think of wreaths as good home investments. I plan to use this wreath every year for a long, long time. Like we are talking great-grandchildren long, if I am so blessed to be around that long. Anyways, a wreath goes a long way and I think it really pulls a porch together.
We had our little photoshoot last week. It was one of the first colder mornings so I took full advantage of it. I was actually able to dress Hudson in pants and a vest! This is a big deal if you live in Southern California. These photos are a great way to capture the amount of changes that happen in a year. Try to make it a tradition to have these fall porch photoshoots. It will be a great collection to look back on as you see how your kiddos and home-decor style changes over the years! Hopefully that expensive wreath you bought will be that one unchanging element.
3. Visit a Pumpkin Patch
Well of course. Yes I know this is an obvious thing to do in the fall season, but this is such a fun tradition, I can’t just not include it. I briefly told this story on Instagram a couple weeks on my pumpkin patch post, but I am going to tell it again here.
We have gone to the same pumpkin patch for the past three years. It is a farm in Irvine, CA called Tanaka Farms. Two years ago, we found out we were pregnant the very same day we visited the pumpkin patch with my mother-in-law. I got the positive test result the morning before we left. We kept it a secret that day just between the two of us, but I can still remember that giddy feeling I had in my heart as we rode the wagon ride.
Last year, we were again at Tanaka. This time with a little, 4-month old baby in a pumpkin hat and overalls. It was so fun to pose him by the pumpkins and place him in the wheelbarrow. We got some really precious pictures from that trip.
This year, we went again at the same early October time. We had a blast and it was such a different experience from even a year ago. He was running all about, pointing out things that looked interesting, and laughing and enjoying the time with his cousins. The point in all of this, is to encourage you to find a pumpkin patch that is either local or a bit of a drive and stick with it. Go there each year. Make special memories. Before you know it, that very pumpkin patch will be a place that is extra close to your heart because it is a beautiful reminder of the amazing changes a year brings.
4. Attend Local & Free Halloween Events
I am all about free events in the community! It is even more fun when they are themed for the fall season or for Halloween. One of the best ways to be in the know of some fun, family-friendly events happening in your city, is to notice the flyers when you are out and about. I try to be really observant over these types of things and then jot it down in my calendar, so I don’t forget. You can also visit your city’s website and check out their calendar of events. Mommy Poppins is also a great resource for events and things happening in your local city. Facebook can also be super helpful in suggesting events near me and also showing me what some of my other mommy friends are planning on doing!
This week, Hudson and I are excited to attend an event called “Mummy” and Me that is held in El Segundo at The Point shopping center. Do some research, find some free events in your area, and actually go to them (and plan ahead because often times free events like these get SUPER crowded).
5. Attend a Trunk-Or-Treat
Is your church hosting a trunk-or-treat? Get involved and have your kiddos help you decorate your trunk. We are planning on doing a Toy Story-themed trunk to match our little Buzz Lightyear. If you are in the South Bay area, you should attend our church’s Falloween Fest! Lots of churches host these free and fun events, so you should research and find out if a local church to you is having a trunk-or-treat. There might even be a free dinner served and games and even a movie shown (ours will!).
6. Go to the Library and Check Out Fall-Themed Books
If you are already part of the tmng community, you know I am a fan of the library. Go to your local library and check out a few books that are fall or Halloween-themed. Most libraries will have a seasonal section displaying some of the librarians favorite books of fall! At the library we go to, their display is behind the counter, so if this is the case, just ask the librarian and they likely will be happy to check them out for you! If for some reason you do not see a lot of seasonal-themed books out, ask your librarian! Our sweet librarian brought us out out about 20 books that they had in the back room. So just because you don’t see a large selection does not mean they don’t have ample supply of pumpkin books!
Trick or Treat, Marley!
It’s Pumpkin Day, Mouse!THIS IS Hudson’s FAV! He literally gets spooked and laughs out loud all at the same time! Now that is a good story. I am all about the library, but this is such a hit for Hudson, I might just need to buy it to have a copy for our at-home library!
You Are My Pumpkin
Pumpkin Orange, Pumpkin Round
Penguin and Pumpkin
In the Middle of Fall
7. Pick 1 or 2 SIMPLE Pinterest Fall Crafts
Pinterest and blog posts about a bunch of fall crafts to do with your toddler REALLY stresses me out. For one, I am not very creative and also, it just feels very overwhelming and messy. Hudson is still not quite at the age where he is fully into arts and crafts, but I still think it is fun to plan ahead and choose one or two fall-themed crafts to do with your little ones at home. Why do I think this is a good idea? It is an activity that fills time, it feels festive, it acts as unique decoration to put on your walls, and it is a great memory keeper. For the really special crafts, I would even recommend laminating it to help preserve it throughout the years.
Especially at the baby and toddler age, it is always fun to find a craft that uses hand or foot prints to help remind you how little they used to be! We did this REALLY simple, “itsy bitsy spider” handprint craft with some ladies from my MOMS Club. All you really need is orange paper, googly eyes, black paint, and a marker to draw the web. You also should try to do a pumpkin-type craft, whether that is with actual physical pumpkins or paper pumpkins. Here are some fun pumpkin craft ideas.
8. Bake Fall Recipes
This is a fun one to get your toddler more involved in the kitchen with you. Not only will they love “helping” out, they will most definitely love being a taste tester. I started to let Hudson help a bit more in the kitchen as he started showing interest. I am thinking about getting a kitchen step stool to help make our kitchen time a bit safer! Anyways, choose a simple fall recipe that your toddler can help get involved in on.
I keep it real simple and usually get the boxed pumpkin bread from Trader Joe’s, which I linked to at the very beginning of this post. Try to choose something like this that takes only 10-minutes to whip up together. His attention span is very short these days! Allow them to hold the spoon and mix batter. Talk through the different ingredients you are pouring in. Show them how you crack the egg. The egg crack is always the most fascinating to Hudson. I have a pumpkin bread pan that I love. This is a fun way to visually make the outcome even more fun for your toddler. Give them a slice of the bread as their reward for helping out! Hudson literally gobbles this stuff up.
9. Walk Through a Neighborhood that is Well-Decorated
Find a neighborhood that is especially well-decorated with fall and Halloween decor and take a walk through it. This is one of Hudson’s favorite fall activities. He literally points out every single pumpkin. He is also a fan of scarecrows and spiders. You can even use the walk as a way to help expand vocabulary and make a game out of it. “Can you show me where the big, purple spider is?” “How many pumpkins are outside of their house? Let’s count together. 1, 2, 3…” And so on. This is a totally free activity and if your toddler is anything like mine, they will LOVE it.
10. Organize a Costume Parade with Friends
This fall we are in a couple Mommy and Me class that will have costume parades the week of Halloween. If you are not enrolled in any classes that are doing something similar, create your own costume parade! You could make it super simple. Reach out to a few close friends with little ones. If you are in a mom’s group, maybe host a whole event for your group. Either meet at a home or a park and bring Halloween-themed music, treats for the little ones, and be sure to take lots of pictures as they march around in their costumes!
I hope you liked some of my toddler fall/Halloween ideas! I tried to keep them really simple and manageable. Do not get overwhelmed with Pinterest! There are so many fun, fall-themed things you can do to keep your little ones entertained that are budget and time friendly! I would love to hear what you are doing with your kiddos this fall season! Leave a comment below.